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How do you begin to develop the emotional competency of being a personal brand?Your business is personal.

If you’re reading this article, more than likely you agree with this statement.

As solopreneurs, microbusiness owners, the creatively self-employed — call us what you will — the onus is on us to decide where we draw the line between what’s on the table for ‘business’ and what we keep behind the curtain, or ‘personal.’

And when we consider this idea of being a ‘personal brand,’ or a business brand with a personal feel (like most of our clients at The Voice Bureau), the negotiation between ‘business’ and ‘personal’ gets all the more complicated.

Most of The Voice Bureau’s Right People clients don’t fight the idea of ‘being’ a brand. Around here, we hold that any individual or entity who shows up online, with a purpose, in any sort of a consistent way, is presenting (albeit unconsciously sometimes) as a brand. How you choose to live out your ‘brand’ is your business. (Pun intended.) Our clients tend to accept the idea that being a ‘brand’ comes with the territory of presenting value to the marketplace. Even if you don’t see yourself as a brand, other people will.

Over the past year, Tami and I have had many deep conversations about how we — and by that we mean all of us: she and I, and you (our reader), and our clients — show up online.

We notice what we choose to lead with in our brand conversations and we ask ourselves why.

A big part of our Empathy Marketing work is reverse engineering the rational and emotional logic that’s led a client to show up (or not to show up) online the way she does — both in search results, and more importantly, in her Right People’s realm of interest.

We’ve noticed that perhaps the most important part of leading a memorable, meaningful, and successful online business brand starts way before a Value Proposition ever gets clarified, before copy ever gets written, or before a website gets designed. It’s the inner work a values-based brand creator has to do to shape and lead a brand with strength, love, and intentionality, and be in integrity with herself every step of the way.

One Friday morning during our weekly collaboration call, Tami described this inner work to me as “developing the emotional competency to be a personal brand.” I just about fell off my chair.

I knew this was a conversation I wanted us to be part of — in public, with you.

We feel strongly about the need for this conversation today. We’re hosting three complimentary calls for our readership (and anyone else you might like to invite).

The series starts Wednesday, May 1st, PST. Details are here. We hope you’ll register and join us live or enjoy the recordings.

In the comments, we’d love to know:

What have you identified as being part of the Emotional Competency of being a personal brand? What goes into it, from your view? 

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Vintage tools in a creative studioIn the toolbox of every values-based business creator, there are some tools we enjoy using more than others to tell our brand’s story.

Ooh, I get to have a new color palette! we marvel when it’s time to collaborate with a web designer.

OMG, I am so ready for a new About page! we tell our newly hired copywriter.

Pinterest? Sure! I’ll try it out, we think, after reading the 5 Best Pinterest-For-Business Tips article everyone’s been circulating on Twitter.

As a branding specialist, I get excited about these elements, too. But I’d like to share with you the TWO unsexy-sounding business tools every values-based brand creator absolutely needs to cozy up to — the sooner, the better.

But first, what are the signs that you could stand to have a better relationship with these two unsexy-sounding tools?

  • You find explaining what you do in one or two sentences to be really difficult.
  • You’ve been investing in all sorts of courses and programs that address the different pieces and parts of doing business, but you find it tough to implement because you know your foundation isn’t as solid as you’d like it to be.
  • You have SO many product ideas and you’re having trouble narrowing down which one to start working on first.
  • You’ve been doing business for a while and you’ve had some sales, but something just isn’t clicking. You feel like people are interested in what you have to say, but you also know you’re not really working in your sweet spot yet.
  • You feel frustrated and anxious whenever you see one of your industry peers tweeting about her new offering. Damnit, why didn’t I think of that? you find yourself fretting.

If one or more of the points above resonate with you, it’s high time you get to know your Brand Proposition and your Unique Selling Position, or USP.

The two unsexy-sounding but oh so powerful business-and-branding tools you have to get clear on are:

  1. Your Value Proposition, or as we like to call it at The Voice Bureau, your Brand Proposition, and
  2. Your Unique Selling Position, or USP.

If you’re anything like many of the creative people dreaming of starting businesses even as I type this article, your eyes may be glazing over at these terms. You’ve probably seen them a hundred times in various marketing articles. But here’s the thing: have you really done this foundational work of getting clear on what they are for your business?

Brand Proposition is a clear statement of:

  • the Who — who your business serves
  • the Value — what they get from working with you
  • the Vibe — your brand voice or unique style (at The Voice Bureau, we express this by your Voice Values)
  • the View — your unique POV on the problem your solution addresses

Here’s the magic mojo in these tools: if you can confidently state your Brand Proposition, you’re clear on what business you’re in. If you’re not so sure about your Brand Proposition, you’re probably not quite clear on what your business is yet. And you surely don’t yet understand your USP.

Here are two fictional examples of clear Brand Propositions:

Example 1:

Laurie Matthias helps parents of infants [the WHO] adjust to life with their newborn and establish their household’s New Normal [the VALUE]. Her firm but playful approach [the VIBE, with Voice Values: Power, Helpfulness, Playfulness] allows parents to relax into their new roles and create systems that encourage every member of the family to thrive. She believes that through creating a System of Care, baby and parents both can be themselves and flow more easily with the rhythms of life [the VIEW].

Example 2:

Troy Yu is a dog trainer who specializes in helping senior pet owners [the WHO] train and love their dogs. His gentle, personable, and systematized approach [the VIBE, with Voice Values: Intimacy, Love, Clarity, Accuracy] helps seniors quickly learn simple, clear commands and praise-and-reward techniques, establishing them as confident alpha owners [the VALUE]. He believes that any willing person can become a great pack leader and that it’s never too late to teach an old dog new tricks [the VIEW].

Once your know your Brand Proposition, you can pinpoint your USP.

Your Unique Selling Position, USP, is also commonly referred to as your ‘differentiator.’

While some of your competitors and peers may have the same or very similar Brand Proposition as you, your USP is what sets you apart from every single one of ‘em.

You can identify your USP by thinking about what makes you different. Maybe that’s:

  • your proprietary methodology
  • your unusual blend of training
  • your extraordinary circumstances or life experience

What isn’t a USP? (Although sometimes people try to pass it off as such.)

  • Your passion. You’d better have passion if you’re providing a service to people based on your expertise. We expect you to have passion, and we know that passion gets expressed differently based on your Voice Values. (For instance, a high Enthusiasm value expresses passion quite differently than a high Accuracy value does.)
  • Your experience of being a survivor or an overcomer. Many of us are survivors and overcomers, and the world is better for it. But resting your USP on your experience of that lands as way too general and ambiguous. Let your survivor disposition inform and inspire your work, but don’t declare it as your USP.
  • Your intuition. While using your intuition in your service can be awesome and a legitimate feature of your work, because it’s not measurable from the outside, it’s not a strong USP.
  • Any “I’m better” conclusion that can’t easily be substantiated — “I’m the best,” “I’m mindful,” “I’m committed,” “I’m all in.” Many people boldly claim these types of things on their About or Services page, but if everybody’s claiming it, it’s definitely not a USP.

While Brand Proposition and USP are basic building blocks of any viable business, you might be surprised to know how many creative and intelligent people start businesses without being clear on these important elements.

We have had ENOUGH of seeing smart, sensitive practitioners stumble and falter in their business and brand-building because they simply aren’t clear, settled, and confident in their relationship with these tools.

That’s why when Tami and I set out to design our premium service experience for The Voice Bureau, we knew we wanted to go all the way back to basics.

We knew that the fun stuff — content strategy, social media conversation, visual vibe — couldn’t come to life for our clients without a clear Brand Proposition and USP.

So when we recently revamped Empathy Marketing, we decided to put ALL of this into the experience.

We’re now booking clients for Empathy Marketing 2.0. And until June 1st, 2013, we’re booking at an introductory price. Learn more here.

In the comments, Tami and I would love to hear:

What’s your Brand Proposition? What’s your USP, or differentiator? Lay them on us in the comments, and be sure to share your Voice Values, too.

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A recent trend I’ve spotted among those who coach and advise microbusiness owners is the advice to survey your readers to find out what they want from you.

maria mejia © studio.esThe premise here is great. Any time I see someone wanting to focus their business expression  on their potential clients rather than on themselves, it’s a good thing.

But — is surveying your blog readership, or even your email subscriber list, a smart way to gather information?

Let’s take a look.

Chances are, if you’re doing a good job of creating high-interest, helpful blog content, you have a loyal core of readers — people who consistently read everything you publish. This core group is most likely a fraction of the traffic to your site on any given day.

Then, you’ve got a bigger group of semi-readers, who pop on and off of your site after clicking a link on Twitter or Facebook, or clicking through a pin of yours. They probably glance at your latest post for two seconds, then bounce. If it’s a particularly engrossing topic, they may read in full, but not comment or share the post. These semi-readers are not part of your loyal core, but they are moderately interested in learning more about what you have to say/teach/model/share (which is good), or in hearing your take in particular (which is very good).

You may have Right People-like buyers hanging out in both groups: the loyal core and the moderately interested peeps. Will the moderately interested peeps click through to your sales page, read or skim to the bottom, and click Buy on any given day? That’s a matter of everything from how much time they have in that moment they encounter your site, their energy level, their predisposition to be proactive (or not) about addressing a problem they’re aware they have, and the balance in their PayPal account.

But your Right People readers? The majority of the time, they will buy your offer if the timing is right (for them), if the price is right (according to the value you’ve demonstrated on the sales page and through the rest of your brand’s suite of signals), and if they believe that you see them and get them and you have the solutions they’ve been yearning for.

Whether your Right Person buyer buys what you’re offering is a function of how well you’ve communicated that you understand what they’re up to, what troubles and concerns them, what delights and serves them, and that you’ve designed this offer with them in mind.

Your brand is not a buffet.

A short personal story:

I like buffet eating. A little bit of this, a little bit of that. As a kid, one of my favorite  ”holidays” of the year was our annual Kerr family reunion. Why? Picnic food! Three stretches of wooden picnic table full of it. I like having options.

But great brands that get profitable are not built buffet-style.

Here’s what I mean.

Let’s imagine you’re a graphic designer. Your business is a year old and you get about 1500 unique visitors to your site every month. In the first year of business, you brought in $16,578.43 in revenue from a hodge podge of digital download products, one-to-one services for clients, and one 4-session coaching workshop that 6 people signed up for. You blog inconsistently: sometimes 4 times a month, sometimes none. You use every social media channel you can think of, but you don’t really have a plan for what you’re doing there — you’re just showing up and being warm and engaging, sharing links to other people’s stuff and occasionally to your own. You have an email list of 117 people, but you’ve never had a freebie so you have no idea why most of these people signed up to receive updates from you. You’ve emailed them only 5 times over the course of the last year.

You’re eager to grow your business and your reach, so you’ve decided to survey your blog readers to find out what they want from you, blog-wise and product or service-wise.

You post a survey on your blog, and you also email the link to your subscriber list. There are 5 questions, because you’ve read that you should keep surveys to as few questions as possible, certainly under 10. Two of your questions are multiple choice and three are open-ended. You get 38 responses over a one-month period.

Because you’ve asked so few questions, you have very little insight to work with about who these people are. (But the thought of giving them the third degree, via a longer survey or a phone call, just feels . . . weird.)  Your survey tells you that only 14% of those surveyed are “currently looking for a graphic designer to work with” but 87% of them “would appreciate more free graphic downloads.” (Don’t blame me — you asked them!)

Furthermore, to your open-ended question, “What would you like me to share on my blog?” you’ve received all manner of responses, from “Photos of your creative studio, so we can see what it’s like to be you!” to “How-to articles that help me learn PhotoShop techniques” to “Top 10 lists of your favorite free iPhone apps!” to “How you got into graphic design,” “Tell me whether I need to hire a web designer or a graphic designer or both,” and “Tips for how I can start my own graphic design business, please! I want to be you when I grow up.”

Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm . . . that was . . . helpful (?)

The reality is, if you left your brand conversation up to people with the time and inclination to participate in a blog survey (not necessarily your Right People), and you actually implemented what they asked for, you’d be taking a huge risk: a risk that you’d miss the Important Conversations your Most Likely To Buy Person really cares about, wants to engage in online, and wants your take on.

Don’t risk turning your brand conversation into a buffet.

When surveying people can be helpful

There is one group of people you absolutely want to talk with and learn from: people you’ve worked with, who have experienced your offers first hand (i.e. purchased your digital product or hired you for a service). You’ll want to find out what drew them to the offer in the first place, what tipped them over the edge to buy, what they expected to get/learn, what they actually got/learned, and where they’d like to suggest improvements or upgrades.

Will all of your buyers be Right People? Nope. Not all buyer feedback will be useful for you in developing your brand conversation further.

That’s why it’s even more important to intimately know your Right Person — the person whose core needs and developmental desires sync up perfectly with what you have to offer, in the way you offer it.

He or she really is out there. In fact, there’s not just ONE Right Person out there for you, there are thousands of ‘hims’ or ‘hers’ hoping — in the back of their minds, if not at the forefront — to find a conversation online like the one you are uniquely designed and equipped to create and hold.

The question is: will you do it? Will you bring it?

If you’ve been following The Voice Bureau for a while, you know that I (Abby) deliver a high level service called Empathy Marketing, along with my collaborative partner, searchologist Tami Smith.

We launched the service right before the New Year 2013 and have had the awesome pleasure of unveiling Empathy Marketing strategies to 16 high integrity microbusiness owners. We listened closely to their feedback during, immediately after, and months after their time with us concluded. We heard what they told us they wanted more of, what they were empowered to implement immediately, what was most inspiring, and where they needed more support (copywriting!).

And we’ve iterated. We made Empathy Marketing even tighter, more impactful, and more immediately actionable.

We kept all of the best parts in — and made them even better. And we added a few new features we think you’ll truly dig, like ready-to-go titles for your 101-style articleseries, and grab-and-go examples of how to work deep metaphors into your copy that will speak directly to your Right Person’s core needs.

We think you’ll love looking at your business this way, and getting to know your Right Person by standing in his or her shoes. If you’re ready, please take a look at the NEW Empathy Marketing.

We’re currently booking new clients, one per week. Book soon to ensure the Start Week of your choice.

In the comments, Tami and I would love to hear:

What have you learned from surveying your own readers? Have you found a question that’s yielded particularly insightful responses? What have you NOT been able to learn about your Right People, so far?

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Rose, Brooke, and Melanie are all certified life coaches.

In fact, they are all certified from the same school of training.

Two women chat about how to differentiate their brand conversation.They’re all hovering around 40 years old, they all have kids in elementary school, and they all practice yoga. They all like to blog from their favorite indie coffee shops, and their coaching businesses are (so far) all one-woman shows. No Virtual Assistants (yet), no web designers hired and paid for. Rose, Brooke, and Melanie are that PTA-going, DIY-blogging, Anthropologie-scoping, kicking-back-in-sweatpants-with-the-hubs-on-a-Saturday night kind of solopreneuring women. [Hat tip to Hannah Marcotti and her Friday blog posts for the construction of that last sentence.]

On paper, these women’s lives appear quite similar, and (one might assume) their values with regards to being coaches are similar, too. To boot, all three women move in the same online space, share overlapping blog readerships and Twitter followerships, and are ‘known’ by the same crew.

So how, pray tell, do Rose, Brooke, and Melanie begin to make their brand conversations stand out from each other’s?

First, let’s think about standout brands: what do we know about them?

They feel authentic.

They look unique.

They deliver consistently.

They act in integrity with what their brand promises.

And true standout brands sound only like themselves. They’ve got an unmistakable voice — not one that appeals to everybody, but one that appeals to its Right Person.

Think of the Superstar Brands you yourself know about in your niche, or in related niches. They have their imitators, but no one pulls off moxie/madcap/sexy/vulnerable/hilarious/ballsy/intellectual quite like they do.

Luckily for Rose, Brooke, Melanie, and their respective Right People, they’ve discovered their Voice Values.

They have words for what makes them sound only like themselves, when they’re being themselves. When they’re writing from a place of true conviction, a point of empathy with their Right People readers and prospective buyers.

Their brand conversations have handles that their Right People can hold on to, to pull themselves up with.

They know how to layer their Voice Values in a way that makes their messaging stand out from all the rest.

Let’s take a closer look.

When it comes to the coaching process, all three women say that they value mutual trust, openness to the process, and a spirit of inquiry. All of them create a safe space for their clients to do the deep work of personal transformation. All of them say their clients are engaged in a process of getting to know themselves in a new and important way, and really stepping into whatever work in the world is theirs to do.

All three women like and admire each other, but are scared to death that they will never be able to blog about something other than what the other two are blogging about, and Brooke is by far the strongest writer, so her articles will blow everyone else’s out of the water. Rose is the funniest, so she’s a blast and a half on Twitter and Facebook. And Melanie is beautiful and charismatic and has a really compelling video presence, so she’s a favorite of interviewees.

Fortunately, their Voice Values, even with some Values overlapping between the three of them, shake out differently enough that they can have three very different-sounding, different-feeling, different-landing brand conversations with a similar readership, without fearing that they’re losing any of the idiosyncratic stuff that makes them them.

  • Rose’s Top 3 Voice Values are Clarity, Helpfulness, and Playfulness. Her brand conversation is clear, easily accessible, focused on being a resource for readers, and full of humor.
  • Brooke’s Top 4 Voice Values are Love, Transparency, then Intimacy and Innovation, which are tied. Her brand conversation is heartfelt, soft, and nurturing, shot through with bolts of exciting inventiveness.
  • Melanie’s Top 5 Voice Values are a two-way tie between Audacity and Helpfulness, followed by a tie between Intimacy and Depth, and in fifth place, Clarity. Her brand conversation is bold yet supportive. She moves in close and goes deep, focusing on presenting ideas as simply as possible.

Understanding how and where their Voice Values naturally and spontaneously occur when they’re writing, dreaming up content, and sharing their message with potential clients goes a long way.

Understanding how to layer their three, four, or five top Voice Values across their whole brand conversation goes even further.

And finally, understanding why their Right People are drawn to them for the specific Voice Values they have, well, that right there is a huge part of each woman’s differentiator. And their differentiator is what sets Rose, Brooke, and Melanie apart from each other, in the eyes of Twitter followers, potential clients, and even (yes) search engines. Naming this differentiator and why it’s a selling point for your Most Likely To Buy People is part of the big work of Empathy Marketing.

I hope it goes without saying that because these coaches lead with such different Voice Values, they’re naturally going to draw a different sort of Right Person. And that means their visual brand identities must necessarily look quite different from each other’s (no defaulting to ‘vintage with a modern edge’!). The offers they create are going to speak to different core needs, and point to different results. This, too, is work based in empathy.

If you haven’t yet discovered your Voice Values, now’s a great time.

Subscribe to the site below with your best email address and click Go. We’ll send you our complimentary Discover Your Voice Values assessment, and you’ll be on the road to what Rose, Brooke, and Melanie are figuring out. It’s good stuff.







P.S. If you’d like even more insight into how to layer your top Voice Values across your entire brand conversation, you’re going to LOVE the Voice Values Profiles we’re releasing later this Spring. Get (or stay) subscribed to the site to learn more, and to receive a Priority Discount code when they’re ready for pre-sale.

In the comments, we’d love to know:

How do you intentionally set yourself and your brand apart from peers in your niche, especially ones that share similar topics and themes to yours? How has understanding your Voice Values already helped you do that more effectively? What else would you like to learn?

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Unfollow and unfriend everybody.

The End.

Social media can be a bummer.Just kidding. There’s more to this story.

Seriously, though, I’m up writing late this evening (10:34 PM is late for me, who is wont to go to bed on Granny Time). There’s been something on my mind lately that I really want to talk about, but haven’t been sure where to start the conversation, or what effect it might create. So I’ve decided to share it here.

You see, I seem to be having the same conversation lately with everyone I talk to: clients, colleagues, friends. So many of us — and I certainly include myself in this group — are feeling SO OVER THE INTERNET. Especially over social media.

For me, the OVER IT-ness is specifically around Twitter.

Before you tell me, But Abby, Twitter is what you make it — I so know that. I have been making it what I’ve wanted to make it. And therein lies the problem. And so now, I’m making it something new — something I need right now.

But first, let me tell you a story.

Input is my party trick.

When I used to teach high school English (in my pre-business owning days), I had a sort of party trick I’d demonstrate to students on the first day of school, every year. Within 55 minutes (that’s how long each class was) of taking attendance for the first time and putting a face to each name, I’d do The Name Thing. I’d lay the roster facedown on my desk and proceed to go seat by seat, row by row, and recite the names — first, middle, and last — of every student in the classroom. Up to 30 students per class, up to 6 classes a day. My accuracy rate was about 80-90%, the first time through.

What’s my trick? It’s not a photographic memory, but a high Input strength. My mind is constantly in Input More mode (even when I’m dead sleepy, quite sick, or otherwise compromised) and I rapidly catalogue and archive new info according to my own specific schemata. I collect names, data, and details like other people collect baseball cards. Or tattoos.

Input has been my way of getting through the world. I rely on Knowing Stuff About Stuff.

For this reason, Twitter has been a huge joy — a perpetually updated feed of info parcels for my consumption, some of them even wittily wrought! — and a huge hindrance to my being able to stay in creation mode, in flow, and at peace. Because my penchant for multitasking is so high, I move my business forward on the daily while always knowing what everybody else is up to.

I want to quit that habit.

Breaking up is hard to do.

I’ve been using Twitter for business since 2008 (certainly not the early days of Twitter, but, well, for five years!) and I’ve been on Facebook longer than that. These platforms have changed through the years, but one thing is certain: the inflation of airy ideas and plastic promises into near-religious doctrine (in 140-character homilies) is at an all-time high. (Are you with me?) Not to mention, the ego battles, the link blitzes, the snark fests, the one-sided humor, the political diatribes, etc.

I’m not saying I’m not part of it. I certainly contribute my own biz-promotional tweets to the mix. There’s nothing wrong with any of us using Twitter for business. Heck, if I didn’t have a business, I probably wouldn’t even be on Twitter. (It’s a privacy thing for me. Not so into sharing my personal life over the interwebs. No judgement if you do.)

Now granted, Twitter is quite often a wonderful, validating, ego-supportive place to be.

But is that really so good for a creator, or a teacher, or a consultant, to be petted, praised, and stroked? Are we training our brains to need the ongoing validation, the retweets, and the backchannel high-fives that flow in over DM? I don’t know about you, but I don’t want my creative output to hinge one iota on some kind of Pavlovian response.

On a delightful day, of course, I adooooooore Twitter. It’s one of the most fun places in the world for writers. We get to communicate in short, poem-like bursts of concrete ideas. We get to practice our dialogue-writing skills. We get to experience the rush of a first-time share from Somebody Big, the tiny thrill a new @ reply serves up, the internal jazzle of a really good 3-way, 4-way, or 5-way convo with mutual tweeps.

And yet — I have to notice, and admit to myself, and respect, that my MOST productive days are the days I spend the least time on social media. And the weeks when I feel really, really great are weeks when I’m a little social media-lite.

I can’t do Twitter like I’ve been doing it anymore.

And so — I’m making Twitter an easier place for my brain to be.

This week, I embarked on what will likely be a massive unfollow of Tweeps. I’m radically paring down my Home feed so that I only see the kinds of content I feel drawn to engage with, right now, this week.

If I want something different next week, I’ll add more Tweeps. Or delete a few more.

Yes, I know this is why Twitter lists were invented — so that we could segment who we follow into feeds that make better sense to us. Tried it; ultimately, it’s not the solution I’m looking for. Lists just give me one more schema to layer into my schemata. But maybe Twitter lists are a great solution for you.

In doing this massive unfollow, I’m accepting that :

(A) since I’ve been a really friendly, conversational Tweeter, some people may take offense to my unfollow and (A1) unfollow me back if they see following as a reciprocal deal (it’s okay with me if you want to) or (A2) get offended with me (though I hope a social media unfollow doesn’t bum you out that much), and

(B) as a Connector, this may somewhat compromise my ability to . . . connect. Or not. We’ll see. It’s an experiment.

Someone I like a lot challenged me last year to spend 6 months deepening the business relationships I already have rather than intentionally expanding into new relationships. She also challenged me to stop pretending to be an Extrovert because it’s not good for my Introversion. [Ahem.] I can sense that the time for all this is nigh.

Many of the people I’m unfollowing are friends, friendly acquaintances, peers I respect, and clients. Many of the people I’m unfollowing on Twitter are people I look forward to remaining connected with elsewhere (like here or here). Some of the people I’m unfollowing are people with whom I’ve never exchanged Tweet One.

And that’s all right with me. Reducing some of the connectivity that this digital life affords us sounds like just what my soul is ordering. And I’m choosing to listen to my soul, not to the electronic chirp.

Now true connection (as opposed to connectivity) is something I’m still interested in. Tami and I are designing for true connection over on Google+, where we’ve just opened our Voice Bureau Community. If you’re into thoughtful conversation, not just noise, please consider joining us there.

In the comments, I want to hear:

What about you? What do you do (or what will you do, starting now) when social media bums you out — hampers your flow, harshes your mellow, impedes your process? 

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